I had so many plans. So many dreams. They were supposed to be a crucial part of all of them. Without them, the plans will so easily fade away. These plans were all well and good, but they lacked the most critical component, timing. In the rare instances where hopes and dreams are gifted by luck and happenstance, then I say embrace the blessing.
Have you ever been told not to celebrate too early? Envision the finish line, but don’t get too far ahead of yourself. Planning the rest of your lives together is advisable, but losing sight of the present could completely negate even the most well-laid plans. The love may very well be there, and the potential for a bright and wonderful future might seem inevitable, but just like constructing a building, plans require day to day attention.
What good is it to have the wedding, honeymoon, and a 20-year plan in place, if you neglect the day to day issues that will most likely come up. You can spend all of your time fantasizing about the future, but what is the point if you stop paying attention to the present. There is nothing wrong with a fantasy unless you let it overtake the reality. You end up falling in love with what hasn’t happened yet, and the reality tends to suffer.
There is no set time on this. Everyone has their limits. These limits are based on whatever it is they want to base them on. This isn’t a law or even a rule. It is a guide. Plan for the future, but don’t let that get in the way of living in the present. Don’t allow yourself to be blinded to what is, by what isn’t. Open your eyes and don’t let the wrong time and place distract you.