Life may not always seem like a fairy tale, but that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve the best parts of one. No one deserves to be unhappy or miserable. No one deserves to be alone. Life is all about balance. Balancing work and play, light and dark, right and left, and pretty much everything else. Just because something bad has happened to you, does not make you any less worthy of enjoying a life filled with love and happiness.
There will be times when life doesn’t seem fair. Bad things happen to good people. It might seem inevitable and it might occur so often that you start to feel like it is what you deserve. Maybe you start to believe that you deserve to be alone and that you are unworthy of someone else’s love and affection. It breaks my heart when people feel that way. I am telling you now, that will never be the case. You deserve to enjoy a life of fulfillment and love.
It is important to remember that bad things happen to bad people as well. Don’t hate them for it. Pity their response to the hardships of life. How would they know to behave badly if they never experienced bad things in their life? I am not saying that bad behavior or actions deserve to be rewarded. I am saying that bad things happen and it is up to each and every one of us how we respond. Just because bad things happened to you does not mean that you deserved it. Instead, let it reinforce the value in, and appreciation of, all the good things life has to offer.