"You can't put a price on being able to live with yourself."- Jack Silva (13 Hours) There are a lot of examples of heroism and sacrifice throughout history. It is a tale as old as humanity. 13 Hours is a more recent example of people answering a call that they didn't have to answer in …
Inspiration of the Day #80
"Roads? Where we're going we don't need roads."- Doc Brown (Back to the Future) If you haven't seen these movies, you are missing out. To call them classic is a monumental understatement. Back to the Future is arguably one of the best movie trilogies ever created and they continue to motivate and inspire to this …
Inspiration of the Day #67
"Anything in life worth doing is worth overdoing. Moderation is for cowards."- Shane Patton (Lone Survivor) This is not the entire monologue, but in an effort to keep it clean and friendly for all, I have used what I believe is among the more important pieces. Lone Survivor is a story that is absolutely mind-blowing. …
Lesson 34: Many veterans have had a practice marriage
Now comes the time for a very harsh truth. This is not a concept I am addressing from personal experience. This is coming from statistics and observation. I have seen firsthand how true this is. After my first two years on active duty, divorce notices ceased to surprise me. I don’t mean to make light …
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Lesson 33: Always have a pen/pencil and notepad on you
You never know when important things are going to happen. No matter how good you think your memory is, it is never a bad idea to always have writing material available. For certain military occupational specialties, it is even mandatory. Regardless of whether you are working security, policing, mechanical, administrative, etc., there is no reason …
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Lesson 32: Long-distance relationships are not ideal
I am sure you already knew this, but this holds especially true for those serving in the armed forces. You may think that long distance is long distance, regardless of what your profession may be, but you would be wrong. There is an extra level of difficulty for people serving in the armed forces that …
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Lesson 31: Military sarcasm and humor don’t translate well into civilian life
While I was fortunate enough to learn this lesson before separating from the military, there are times when no matter how early you learn a lesson, habits are difficult to break. In many cases, no matter how hard you try, they never fully go away. Military jargon and sarcasm might as well be considered its …
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Lesson 30: Civilians complain about the funniest things
I have no doubt that there are plenty of people that never served in the armed forces that will understand what I am trying to say. When I say “civilians,” I am referring to the majority. This rule, like any other, is not without exceptions. If you have every worked in any kind of public …
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Lesson 29: Be consistent, but not too predictable
A major part of military training and operations revolves around standardization. General training and principles that are in effect throughout the entire branch in a broad effort to mitigate as much confusion as possible. There is a reason that every member, regardless of military occupational specialty, regular enlisted, reserve, guard, officer, etc., goes through a …
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Lesson 28: NCOs have the solution to any problem
The chain of command in the military, for the most part, is rigid. There is not much room for interpretation. It is designed that way for a reason and the reason is a pretty good one. There is enough stress on the battlefield already. Adding the stress of who is in charge is unwelcome. Everyone …
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