Journeyman's Legacy

Please don’t misunderstand the title.  This is not a gender specific concept.  This is just what we used to say in the military about the person who engages in any kind of unacceptable behavior.  We all know at least one, and a time has arisen at some point in your life, whether you know it …

Continue reading "Lesson 4: Don’t be that guy"

Life isn’t always fair.  Things don’t always go the way you want them to.  Movies, in most cases, tend to let good triumph over evil, but real life will teach you that is not always, if ever, the case.  The military is no exception.  There are always more questions than answers.  Why is he getting …

Continue reading "Lesson 3: Fair is irrelevant"

Plenty of times in life will arise when you are asked a question or are provided with the opportunity to speak on a subject.  Perhaps you know the answer.  You may think you know what to say and you might even be right, but that is not always what matters.  There are times when the …

Continue reading "Lesson 2: Learn when to keep your mouth shut."

The first day of basic training is guaranteed to be one of the worst days of your life.  The hours are intensely long, you are surrounded by hundreds of men and women, most of whom you don’t know or have never seen before, you are in several places throughout the day and night that are …

Continue reading "Lesson 1: No matter what your background, everyone starts as a rainbow."

We are all the sum of our experiences.  Whether it is a success or failure, these experiences act as a lesson that can influence future behaviors.  I hate it when people say that there is a set number of rules, personal attributes, or controllable characteristics, that could make you a better friend, more likable person, …

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